Kimonos come with established rules regarding their styles and types. I’ve put together a simple chart to illustrate this, though it’s quite basic.
The rules surrounding kimonos are said to have been established long ago. With the notable changes in climate and the evolving times, these rules appear to be gradually relaxing.
Are All the Rules Always Correct?
There are many diverse opinions and discussions about these rules, often visible on social media. It feels like a battle between traditionalists and progressives. While I wouldn’t go so far as to label the latter as “revolutionaries,” there is a viewpoint that encourages a degree of flexibility to adapt to modern times, contrasted with the belief that we should adhere to long-established rules. This topic can indeed be quite challenging.
The Person I Used to Be
In the beginning, I would search online for each aspect to ensure there were no mistakes. Now, while I still reference information to some extent, my approach has shifted. It’s not because I’ve become particularly knowledgeable about kimonos, but rather because I believe there’s no absolute right answer; it’s about choosing what feels right for me.
Overthinking can be exhausting, so I try not to ponder too deeply and instead rely on my intuition for decision-making.
Formal Occasion
That said, the conversation shifts a bit when it comes to formal occasions. Personally, I believe it’s safer to adhere to the rules in formal settings. For example, when attending a wedding, there’s an element of respect towards the hosts.
My Conclusion
I know I will continue to grapple with various aspects of kimono etiquette, but my goal is to enjoy wearing kimonos in a way that feels authentic to me.
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